How to create your own DIY wedding order of service
Posted by The Paperbox on 27th Mar 2025
How to create your own DIY wedding order of service
Wedding planning isn’t easy. You’ve got 101 things to think about, and that’s even before you’ve started to create your order of service. But it shouldn’t be stressful; it should be special.
An order of service should be exceptional, which is why so many couples choose to tackle their own. Because while it’s great to have a designer’s help, nothing beats the personal touches when it comes to planning the most intimate moments of your ceremony.
But if you’re lost for ideas on how to bring your wedding order of service together, if you’re a little stuck on what you should include or how it should look, then don’t panic. You’re not on your own. From save-the-date cards to RSVPs, we help people craft everything they need to host their dream wedding.
In this blog, we’ll walk you through the process of creating your own breathtaking DIY wedding order of service, from choosing the right layout to adding meaningful touches that reflect your story. Let’s dive in.
What is an order of service at a wedding?
If you’ve been to a wedding, then you’ve most likely seen, held and read an order of service. It will typically be a printed programme that you’ll pick up on your way into the venue, or that will be placed on your seat when you arrive.
Your order of service is a guide that details what will be happening in your wedding ceremony – it breaks down every part of the ceremony, from the arrival of the guests to the departure of the newly-weds and everything in between.
While it’s not essential, it’s incredibly useful. But why do you need one?
Why do you need an order of service for a wedding?
An order of service is a must when it comes to a wedding, but why do you need one at all? Well…
- It guides and helps structure your wedding ceremony: Laying out exactly what is happening and when will help you stick to your plan and make sure everyone – especially participants – knows exactly what is going on.
- An order of service keeps your guests informed: Much like those participating in your celebration, your guests expect to know what’s going on, and that’s where an order of service comes in handy. It can guide them on timings, readings, and even provide lyric prompts for hymns and songs.
- It will help allocate roles and identify people: Your order of service should lay out who’s responsible for what, but it can also let guests know who is speaking and taking part. For example, if the bride’s sister is doing a reading, her name will appear next to the reading title.
- It helps keep the pace: We all know that weddings have a habit of straying off course, and before you know it, you’re half an hour behind. An order of service will help prompt guests and participants on the timings for the ceremony.
- Making memories: While your order of service is functional, it’s also a great keepsake for your guests to take home with them.
- It represents you: Finally, an order of service, while it does help to keep everything and everyone on track, is all about you. It should be an expression of you and everything you want from your big day.
What information do you need to include in your wedding order of service?
While there are no hard and fast rules for what to include in your wedding order of service – and every couple is different – there are a few general things to remember that can make your life much easier when it comes to creating your order of service.
So, let’s take a look at some key elements for your...
Front cover:
- Couple’s names
- Wedding date
- Venue
- A short message or introduction to the wedding
Inner pages:
- Details of the ceremony – what is happening and when
- Hymn or song lyrics
- Reading titles, speaker details, and notes
Back cover:
- A thank you from the couple
- Thanks to the rest of the wedding party
- Evening or reception details
Top Tips for Creating Your Own DIY Wedding Order of Service
If you include the above information in your wedding order of service, then you can’t really go wrong. But it’s not just the content that makes the order of service. Content, design, aesthetic, layout, and more all come together to create the perfect guide for your ceremony. So how can you get it all right? Here are our top tips for creating your own DIY wedding order of service.
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Decide on your theme and design
The theme and design of your wedding order of service should reflect your wedding’s overall aesthetic. While it’s not always easy to match a font with the feeling of your celebration, it is easy enough to embrace a theme.
Whether it’s rustic, modern, vintage, or traditional, make sure the design aligns with the mood you want to convey. Consider your wedding’s style and formality when choosing the layout. A formal church wedding might call for a more traditional, elegant booklet, while a relaxed outdoor ceremony could suit a simple and modern design.
Tip: You’re not expected to come up with it all yourself – browse Pinterest or search online for inspiration. When you see something you like, save the image and try to write a note summarising why you like it and why it could fit your DIY wedding order of service. This can serve as inspiration for your own order of service.
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Collect your essential information
We’ve already noted a typical page breakdown above, but these aren’t hard and fast rules. When it comes to essential information, you’ll need…
- Your names
- Date
- Venue
- Readings
- Hymn/song lyrics
- A personal thank you message from yourselves, no more than 50 words
- Names of everyone involved
Tip: Get your essential information finalised as early as possible. This allows for your timings and details to flex and change well ahead of anything going to print or pen being put to paper.
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Decide on your layout
Layout is key when it comes to formatting your DIY order of service, and not everyone’s taste or needs are the same. While some couples may prefer the classic A5 layout, others – opting for a smaller, quieter ceremony – may not have enough information to fill that space and may choose a single page instead. It really comes down to preference and how much information you need to feature.
Tip: Try drawing your layout on a simple piece of A4 paper or card. Rather than guessing how much space you’ll have, this will give you a more accurate representation of how your wedding order of service will look.
Too crammed? Try adding another sheet of paper and spreading your information out. Too much space? Add some decorative design.
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Consider the creation and materials
Once you have your theme nailed down and your information finalised, you’ll need to consider the materials that will make up your DIY order of service. And there’s a lot to choose from. You’ll need to decide on…
- Paper type: Will it be classic white or ivory, or will you opt for coloured matte paper?
- Sustainability: Will you opt for recycled card on which to print your order of service?
- Inks and printing: Whether you’re printing or hand-drawing your order of service, now’s the time to decide how you can make it happen and what you’ll make it happen with.
- Craft extras: Wax seals or string binding – it’s the little things that make an order of service truly special.
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Finalise and create your DIY wedding order of service
You’re nearly there. You have everything you need to create your own DIY wedding order of service; now all there is to do is the final checks. Once you’re happy with your final plan, it’s time to put pen to paper.
Tip: Read and reread your wedding order of service. Check that your grammar and spelling are correct, and make sure your timings are spot on – you’re almost at the point of no return.
Do you need help crafting your own wedding order of service?
So, there you have it – our top tips on how to create your own DIY order of service. Hopefully, now you can see just how simple it can be to create your own beautifully bespoke order of service.
At Paperbox, we help people find the materials they need to create their dream wedding stationery, from invitations to orders of service and everything in between. If you need help finding the right envelope, card, or other craft materials to make your wedding day even more special, don’t hesitate to get in touch today.